My worst bad habit: Overusing Instagram.
Instagram is the bane of my existence. I delete and reinstall the app more times than I like to admit.
In 2018, I tried to remediate my addiction by opting out every other month. One day I’m posting like mad and I’m gone the next (The password changed by a loved one because my self control is nonexistent). When I detox, especially after the first week, I experience several the positive benefits: better focus, calmer and positive mind, closer connections with my loved ones, etc. However, when I reinstall the next month, my itch to scroll and all the negative effects that come with it return. Of course.
It will be 2019 tomorrow, and I ask myself again, why do I use Instagram? 1) I use Stories to practice take photos, 2) to show people what I’m working on, and 3) to see what my favorite people are doing. Since my detox was in November, I’m opting from Instagram this January, however I am wondering if I can forgo using it the entire year. Maybe I can start taking photos on an actual camera or simply save them on my phone. Maybe I can savor showing people my work until after it’s done. Maybe I can regularly text my loved ones to see how they’re doing.
I read this quote yesterday in Tony Robbin’s Unlimited Power:
“If you can find enough reasons to do something, you can get yourself to do anything.”
If I say no to Instagram, what do I say yes to?
- Yes to better focus on my goals
- Yes to a healthier headspace, both calmer and more positive
- Yes to more time to do what is most important
- Yes to better connections with my loved ones
- Yes to being more present, living for today
- Yes to nurturing my creative passions
- Yes to thinking space
I challenge you to think about your goals and list all the reasons why you want to achieve it. Think long and hard, create an action plan, and motivate yourself to succeed.
We need more commitment and less complaining.
“Reasons are the difference between being interested versus being committed to accomplish something. […] Why you do something is much more important than how to do it. If you get a big-enough why, you can always figure out the how. If you have enough reasons, you can do virtually anything in this world.” – Tony Robbins